HOW TO FIX A RELATIONSHIP & HAVE THE RELATIONSHIP YOU WISH FROM THE START

There are many people out there that have relationship problems. Don't think your the only one out there that is going through something with your significant other. Think of it like this "Every ship has a set course. As it sets out to reach it's final destination, it always comes across a storm but yet the storm last for a short time before the sun shines again, right?."

UNDERSTANDING THE ISSUES:

I understand issues occur due to past hurts or lack of emotional fulfillment. You either want more from your partner or your partner can be too controlling due to their own past hurts. Alot of relationships in my opinion do not work due to trust issues, family member conflicts and financial worries. You must know not one person in the world is perfect nor has a perfect family. You either except the person and the situation for what it is or you need to seek what you want else where. We all get one life so make yourself happy. Do not settle for nothing less then what you deserve. Now I am not saying you should leave your significant other if you truly believe he/she is the one for you. Sometimes relationships have disagreements only to help each of you grow and become stronger as one. You want a partner that can balance you out.

BEST WAY TO BECOME WANTED BY YOUR PARTNER MORE:

The best way to make a relationship work and keeping your partner interested is first finding out about your own needs and not putting his/her needs before yours. Are you one to drop your routine you have when you meet the person of your dreams then wonder what your doing wrong as it does not seem like your getting the feedback you had thought you would get? Well why do you think that is? It is because your partner liked when you first started dating when you had your routine and did not wait to see what they are doing before you plan your day. It was intriguing. You had a life and an opinion before which made the relationship a challenge. Now that you got him/her they change their tune and back off a bit because it then becomes easy and your taken for granted. I know you say you do not want to play games. Well technically your not. You might of went to work, tanning, the gym, cooked dinner, watched your favorite tv show then went off to bed before meeting this person. Why are you changing? Now, your probably waiting by your phone for a call or text message hoping you will make plans at night with them. Before you know it, it's 9:00 and you received nothing and didn't get things done.

BEGINNING STAGES OF DATING TIP- 2 MINUTE BAG OF POPCORN TRICK:

Another thing I see is wanting to really impress the person you meet. I say don't impress them. Being yourself should impress them. Do not go above and beyond. Relationships should not be difficult. Everything falls into place if that person is the person for you. When you start to change to please someone else, it only shows that you lack confidence. You were created to be who you are and you should not let anyone put you down nor make you feel they are better then you. So next time your partner comes over for a movie do not, I repeat do not start cooking a four course meal. Pop in the microwave a 2 minute bag of popcorn! This is a trick to make a relationship work which is being yourself! The cooking can be a nice surprise later down the line.

DON'T DROP YOUR SOCIAL NETWORK:

You may not admit half the things you do to please a partner but be sure your friends are going to start noticing the changes in you. If things do not work out, do not expect your friends to be there when you had dropped them.

THINK BEFORE YOU ACT:

I notice alotof people also have impulse reactions. I always say think before you act. This is another lesson to learn about yourself. People do things that may get under your skin but you should never react harsh as you may regret it later. What to do in those kinds of situations is to keep yourself busy. If you must shut of your cell phone then most certainly do so. Noone will know and you may realize in the morning you have a new voicemail by your partner.

ACTION BRINGS CHANGES:

I tend to read self-help books just because I find them interesting. It gives you another way to view every situation that comes into your life. Life is not a negative place unless you want it to be. You tend to attract what you think. There is a book everyone should read out there called "the secret". It will really enlighten you and get you back into how you should be with your life and your ways. Everything changes by your own actions.

I hope you will take some of this advice and apply it to your life. Before you know it, you have helped yourself conquer your own emotions and find your significant other wanting to have the relationship work. There are also alot of Self Help eBooks out there as well as Family and Relationships eBooks out there that you should check out. They really will make any situation more at ease.

Hope this hub helps bring you a loving relationship or improves your current one! Let us in on your own secrets on making a guy and/or girl want to commit to you in our comment section.